June 20, 2012 / 11:28AM 125 notes

Fear does three terrible things to relationships:

theatricalbliss:

  • Our fears make us defensive. We’re afraid to reveal ourselves. When people point out weaknesses, we retaliate and defend ourselves.
  • Our fears keep us distant. We don’t let people get close to us. We want to withdraw and hide our emotions. We don’t want to be open and honest.
  • Our fears make us demanding. The more insecure we are, the more we try to control or dominate things. We try to have the last word in a relationship. This is always a symptom of fear and insecurity.

(via saucy-mermaid)

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    And the problem is?? (Aw, jes’ kidding.) Yah, sarcasm’s another defense. Guilty. All of the above. -_-
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    uuhm yaaaaaaaa
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